Loving self

Teach your children self reliance ...Letha Mbuli 
It was interesting listening to her music cos lately my thought has been about reaching deep within to find that love and happiness, thats meaningful like the happiness brought on by a friend or boyfriend's kind gesture, to reach deep within so to be able to love self the way we want others to love us.
So how do we best love ours self intimately?

Answer is within spending time with self and to be able to generate self happiness. By just being, chilling, liming, vibing with yourself ,to go beyond feeling sorry for yourself or wallowing, going beyond your arrogance and ego Especially on the days you feel invalid, unappreciated and useless love yourself care for yourself, I guess after that we empowered with discerning emotions and feeling that belong to us and those imposed on us, through that we then learn how to best deal with people circumstance s and relationships to allow us to, walk through life peacefully. for now this works for me.